As the saying goes: something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue. But what if your something old was even more personal, like a unique cultural tradition? If you’re looking to incorporate you or your fiance’s heritage into your wedding, here’s a few marital customs from around the continent of Africa, and how you might include them in your own celebration:
- The phrase “asking for the bride’s hand” actually originates from a custom in Ghana! This ceremony (called “kookoo ko”) traditionally involves the groom knocking on the bride’s family’s door to ask permission for the marriage. Modernizing this tradition could easily include a comfortable family dinner, but this heartfelt meeting is a great way to bond two families together!
- On the night before her wedding, Swahili brides are adorned with elaborate henna tattoos. In fact, many cultures are known for their beautiful bridal henna. This tradition could easily be incorporated by going out with your bridesmaids for henna tattoos in addition to your pre-wedding mani/pedicures. Imagine the gorgeous pictures of your ring alongside beautiful traditional henna tattoos!
- Many people want to remember lost loved ones at their wedding, and a traditional African libation toast would be a good way to remember your heritage and your relatives. This ritual involves pouring water in the cardinal directions while reciting a prayer to past ancestors and naming those who may have recently passed. This could easily be done by the bride and groom before they begin reciting their vows, and it’s sure to make for a heartfelt and emotional ceremony.
- In Nigeria, Kola nuts are a traditional wedding gift as they symbolize friendship and respect. These nuts taste bitter at first bite, but become sweeter as they are chewed. While you may not include Kola nuts in your wedding favors, you might consider using it as a part of your reception snacks or even on your wedding cake!
Of course there are many more regional traditions that could definitely be included in a modern celebration, but these beautiful customs would be a great way to add a personal touch to your ceremony or reception!